{"id":1127,"date":"2019-03-19T20:59:52","date_gmt":"2019-03-19T15:29:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kashmirnetwork.com\/justju\/?p=1127"},"modified":"2022-10-05T21:43:43","modified_gmt":"2022-10-05T16:13:43","slug":"on-the-importance-of-listening","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kashmirnetwork.com\/justju\/?p=1127","title":{"rendered":"On the Importance of Listening"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/karsh.org\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/LIFE-Hemingway-Cover.jpg\" width=\"225\"><\/p>\n<p>Besides acquiring fame\/notoriety as a journalist, comrade-in-arms, traveller, hunter and <em>la dolce vita<\/em> aficionado, <b>Ernest Hemingway<\/b> was one of the most influential writers of the 20th century. Even though his <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Ernest-Hemingway\/e\/B000APYVZU\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">larger-than-life personality<\/a> combined with a<b> Pulitzer Prize<\/b>  and a <b> Nobel Prize in Literature<\/b>* made him impossible to ignore, yet Hemingway felt compelled to admonish:<\/p>\n<p> <i>&#8216;When people talk listen completely. Don\u2019t be thinking what you\u2019re going to say. Most people never listen.&#8217; <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Islam has rules of etiquette and a moral code involving every aspect of life as defined by <b> Shaykh Abdul-Fattaah Abu Ghuddah<\/b>  in his comprehensive book on <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/archive.org\/details\/IslamicManners_201511\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Islamic Manners<\/a>. The learned scholar refers to the importance of learning how to listen by quoting <b>  Ibrahim bin Al-Junaid <\/b> : <\/p>\n<p><i>\u2018learn the art of listening as you learn the art of speaking. Listening well means maintaining eye contact, allowing the speaker to finish the speech, and restraining yourself from interrupting his speech.\u2019<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The honourable Tabi\u2018i**  <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ata_ibn_Abi_Rabah\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><b> Ata Ibn Abi Rabah<\/b><\/a>, the first Imam of Mecca related:<\/p>\n<p><i>&#8216;A young man would tell me something that I may have heard before he was born. Nevertheless, I would listen to him as if I had never heard it before.&#8217;<\/i><\/p>\n<p>The spiritual head of Tibetan Buddhism, the <b> Dalai Lama<\/b>  says:<\/p>\n<p><i>&#8216;When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new.&#8217;<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dalailama.com\/assets\/news-thumbnails\/_thumbnailMedium\/2020-10-10-Dharamsala-N00_SA971451.jpg\" width=\"300\"><\/p>\n<p>This post was inspired by a quote I came across on the internet that neatly summarises all of the above thoughts:<\/p>\n<p><i>Are you really listening, or just waiting to talk?<br \/>\nTrust your intellect, open your mind.<br \/>\nDon\u2019t prefabricate your responses.<br \/>\nDon\u2019t try to showcase your wit.<br \/>\nListen and respond in the moment.<br \/>\nYou\u2019ll be surprised at how much more you\u2019ll learn.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.kashmirnetwork.com\/justju\/images\/sign.jpg\"><\/p>\n<p>*&#8217;The Old Man and the Sea&#8217; (1953), which is one of my favourite books and films (starring Spencer Tracy).<br \/>\n** The <i>Tabi\u2018un<\/i> ( &#8216;followers&#8217; or &#8216;successors&#8217;) were the second generation of muslims who gained knowledge directly from the <i>Sahaba<\/i> (Companions of the Prophet [PBUH]).<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.kashmirnetwork.com\/justju\/images\/iw.jpg\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Besides acquiring fame\/notoriety as a journalist, comrade-in-arms, traveller, hunter and la dolce vita aficionado, Ernest Hemingway was one of the most influential writers of the 20th century. 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